can't we have it all?

the saga continues.

i swear i continuously have to ask myself why it feels like we can't have it all.

a relationship, time for yourself, friendship etc.

how does one find balance?

time and time again, i watch people drastically change their lives for someone they've known for what it seems like 5 minutes flat. their mantra immediately changes to "we" instead of mixing the "we" with the likes of "i or me." why is that? 

can't we just have it all?

...it's possible right?